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March 20, 2014 by: Shell

Because Having Kids Changes You: $100 Visa Gift Card Giveaway

Your life will never be the same.

How many times do expectant moms hear this phrase? I know I lost count. And I remember nodding my head in agreement (or sometimes rolling my eyes if I’d heard it multiple times that day). But really, I had no clue just how true this would be.

I could tell you that my kids have forced me to be a morning person. That I’m now expected to laugh at fart jokes. That I’ve learned to be a sports mom (7 soccer games this Saturday alone). Or that by having all boys, I’ve had to let go of how girly-girl I’ve always been.

Or I could tell you that there’s nothing like hearing “I love you, Mom” from those sweet little boys. That I’ve cried tears of joy over their milestones. That there’s nothing scarier than thinking something could be wrong with your babies. Or that the kids have brought me unimaginable joy.

But, you get it. You know how kids change your daily routines, how you experience happiness and worry over them, so different from anything you felt before kids.

That’s not all that happens, though. Having kids also changed me. I had to become strong enough to advocate for my children when they needed me. To have patience even in the moments when that was the furthest thing from my gut reaction. I had to find a balance between being gentle in my words and making sure my boys were learning right from wrong.

Since becoming a mom, I went from someone who believed most issues were black and white to knowing that it’s usually gray. I used to fight for everything and now I know not everything is a hill I want to die on. I used to want to be known for doing something, for being smart, for making some sort of difference. And now, I just want to be remembered by my kids as being a loving mom.

Delivery Man

Okay, so my entry into parenthood and yours was nothing like what happened in Delivery Man. Yet we watch David’s (Vince Vaughn) journey as an unexpected discovery unfolds as a heartwarming story to find his long lost children and his true self.

“Hilarious and Heartfelt” – Peter Rallis, Rallis Review <— I completely agree. I actually teared up watching it! You can bring home this hilarious and heartfelt ‘Special Delivery’ on Blu-ray, DVD and Digital HD 3/25/2014. And maybe you’ll even end up watching it ‘533’ times!

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$100 Visa Gift Card Giveaway

One of you will win a $100 Visa Gift Card! Leave a comment, telling me how your kids have changed you for the better.

Sweepstakes Rules: No duplicate comments. You may receive (2) total entries by selecting from the following entry methods: Leave a comment in response to the sweepstakes prompt on this post Tweet (public message) about this promotion; including exactly the following unique term in your tweet message: “#SweepstakesEntry”; and leave the URL to that tweet in a comment on this post Blog about this promotion, including a disclosure that you are receiving a sweepstakes entry in exchange for writing the blog post, and leave the URL to that post in a comment on this post For those with no Twitter or blog, read the official rules to learn about an alternate form of entry. This giveaway is open to US Residents age 18 or older. Winner will be selected via random draw, and will be notified by e-mail. You have 72 hours to get back to me, otherwise a new winner will be selected. The Official Rules are available here. This sweepstakes runs from 3/20/14 – 4/19/14. Be sure to visit the Delivery Man page on BlogHer.com where you can read other bloggers’ reviews and find more chances to win! 

 

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Comments

  1. Robin (Masshole Mommy) says

    March 20, 2014 at 12:07 pm

    Being a mom has definitley changed me, too – and like you, I have all boys, so I think living with that many mini men is an experiences in and of itself.  I always think to myself that I hope my boys remember how much I love them.

  2. Isabella Grey says

    March 20, 2014 at 12:09 pm

    I don’t have kids in the traditional sense. I never adopted or had my own, but my animals are my kids. People tell me horror stories about their toddlers, and I have to retort with stories about how my rabbit managed to pull over a truck weighing 50 times more than she does. 

  3. Kelly D says

    March 20, 2014 at 12:38 pm

    My kids get me to go outside and enjoy nature more than I used to, and also do a lot more arts and crafts.

  4. Melissa M says

    March 20, 2014 at 1:17 pm

    They changed me for the better by making me grow up.  I was 18 when I had my 1st son. 

  5. Denise D. says

    March 20, 2014 at 1:19 pm

    having children has made me having a stronger voice…how to be an advocate…how to work on little sleep…how to love in numerous ways—

  6. Danielle says

    March 20, 2014 at 1:36 pm

    Becoming a mom was healing for me. It gave me purpose and a daily joy that bumped me off the self-destructive path I could have taken.

    It made me smarter. I research and learn by choice, to know better and do better.

    Being a mom makes life more fun! Kids are hilarious!

  7. Chelsea says

    March 20, 2014 at 1:43 pm

    I really love the way you write. It’s so real and relatable, even though I’m not a mom myself!

  8. Allison B says

    March 20, 2014 at 2:10 pm

    Being a mom has changed the way I view my parents. I’m more compassionate towards their mistakes and I have no idea how I didn’t make my mother crazy. It gives me hope for my future self. 

  9. brett says

    March 20, 2014 at 2:27 pm

    I was a selfish, immature girl before I had kids. I didn’t stick up for myself and I sure didn’t have my priorities straight. Then my first was born and suddenly my priorities changed and I knew I had to stand up and be the voice for my kids. Its changed me so much for the BETTER since becoming a mom!

  10. June Lisle says

    March 20, 2014 at 2:45 pm

    My son isn’t born yet but he changed me for the better by helping me be more motivated to better myself. 

  11. Krystyn @ Really, Are You Serious? says

    March 20, 2014 at 2:52 pm

    My kids have actually made me more chill. I know that’s crazy, but it’s true. I’m much better about going with the flow and not planning too much!

  12. VandyJ says

    March 20, 2014 at 2:53 pm

    My boys have reminded me that appreciating the little things is important. Also, that playing with a stick is ingrained in little boys, getting dirty is a good thing, there’s always time for another hug, and flying my girl flag makes them better too.

  13. Terin Garrett says

    March 20, 2014 at 3:11 pm

    My kids have changed me for the better because they have calmed my butt down! LOL!!

  14. Elena says

    March 20, 2014 at 3:43 pm

    Having kids made me more patient

  15. Amy Desrosiers says

    March 20, 2014 at 3:56 pm

    My kids have changed my life for the better because now I have something to live, and smile for. My kids drive me nuts but at the end of the day they are all mine, and I love them! 

  16. Virginia @thatbaldchick says

    March 20, 2014 at 4:10 pm

    Having kids changed me in ways I could have never imagined. I am a better me because I am a Mom.

  17. Lindsey @ Redhead Baby Mama says

    March 20, 2014 at 4:20 pm

    Expected to laugh at fart jokes? That’s the only thing that can make me laugh so hard I CRY… tears and can’t even breathe.  Good thing i had a son!!

  18. Shop with Me Mama says

    March 20, 2014 at 4:39 pm

    Oh yes, being a mommy has forever changed me and for the better too! I love hearing my kids giggle together and hear them say they love me or eachother! So sweet!!!!

  19. Mami2jcn says

    March 20, 2014 at 5:40 pm

    Having children has made me appreciate the small moments. Before I had kids, I seemed to be in a rush all the time and anxious to move onto the next thing. Now I wish I could freeze time.

  20. heather says

    March 20, 2014 at 5:59 pm

    Having kids does change you for the better you remember what it was like to be a kid again and to believe in santa clause again.

  21. Melissa says

    March 20, 2014 at 6:32 pm

    My kids changed me by making me a more accepting and caring person. I also have become more firm when standing up for them. 

  22. Rachel Cartucci says

    March 20, 2014 at 6:36 pm

    I felt so empty and depressed for many years…I felt like my life had no meaning. After My husband and I decided to have a child I started to feel better and when Jack was born it was like all that never happened. I have never had a day like that since he was born 5 years ago. Jack has autism which is hard but I love him so very much…he makes every day pure bliss for me.

  23. Not a Perfect Mom says

    March 20, 2014 at 6:36 pm

    My kids changed me by making me way less selfish…

  24. Patti S says

    March 20, 2014 at 6:44 pm

    I became a mother at the age of 55 last year by way of my 13 year old great-nephew moving in with me after his mother’s death. It’s a whole new world but I just want to know, do boys usually take so many showers? My water bill has doubled!

  25. Jessica To says

    March 20, 2014 at 6:48 pm

    Having my son has made me enjoy the small things in life more. He gets joy out of the littlest things!

  26. Janel C. says

    March 20, 2014 at 6:56 pm

    I still cannot get over the fact that you had 7 soccer games last Saturday – you should win some kind of soccer mom award!  Children sure have a way of completely changing our worlds but it is SO worth it.  Thanks for sharing!  

  27. Margaret Smith says

    March 20, 2014 at 7:11 pm

    My kids have helped me to be more social. Before, I was pretty shy and since having kids and them being active, it’s made me be more social too.

  28. Lisa says

    March 20, 2014 at 7:17 pm

    My kids have taught me to be more patient and appreciate the smallest of moments

  29. Abby says

    March 20, 2014 at 7:40 pm

    Until I had a baby to love i didn’t realize how deeply God loves me. Knowing that personally has set me free. 

  30. steph says

    March 20, 2014 at 8:01 pm

    I have learned to accept myself more and not sweat the small things. I realize I would never flip out if my son did a minor thing wrong or made a mistake. Why do that to myself?

  31. Karen says

    March 20, 2014 at 8:03 pm

    Having my daughter has taught me a lot about patience! Toddlers are no joke! It’s also taught me how to live on less sleep.

  32. Will G says

    March 20, 2014 at 8:36 pm

    They have helped me learn patience

  33. Sabrina says

    March 20, 2014 at 9:17 pm

    Being a mom has changed me in more ways than I can list, but the biggest change is that I now make being happy despite outside influences a top priority. I cherish the little things, like dancing in the kitchen with my son in our pj’s, above all else. 🙂 

  34. momof12 says

    March 20, 2014 at 9:21 pm

    My kids have made me the person I am today. I have a hard time remembering what it was like to work for a company and bring home a paycheck. Now the checks I get are hugs and kisses and headaches, but I wouldn’t change it for anything!
    Sandy

  35. April says

    March 20, 2014 at 9:36 pm

    My kids taught me to not always take life so seriously and to just be silly sometimes. No one makes me laugh like my girls. They have brought so much joy to my life!

  36. Jaime says

    March 20, 2014 at 9:46 pm

    Being a mom has definitely changed how I look at the world. And my priorities have shifted so much, but I totally wouldn’t change anything.

  37. Jenni says

    March 20, 2014 at 10:06 pm

    It’s so true that having kids changes you.  My little guy has changed us in ways that we can’t even explain.  The challenges and triumphs are what have made us who we are.  I wouldn’t change him, or this experience, for anything!

  38. Debbie L. says

    March 20, 2014 at 10:33 pm

    My kids have opened my eyes to so much!  Seeing things differently and wanting to learn more has helped me be a better mom and person.

  39. Mary Withrow says

    March 20, 2014 at 10:54 pm

    I loved to go out and have fun! Meet friends any and everywhere, trips, crazy shopping sprees. However, I also worked since I was 13 but I blew my money! lol. It taught me true joy, responsiblity, saving for the future and gave me a whole new outlook on life. Their future and education and happiness is now my main goal in life.

  40. Britnee says

    March 20, 2014 at 11:12 pm

    My kid taught me responsibility real quick ! 

  41. Janeane Davis says

    March 20, 2014 at 11:17 pm

    Having kids does change us. It changes the best of us for good.

  42. Lisa says

    March 20, 2014 at 11:29 pm

    Being a mom as changed me – different ways each time – and is still changing me. Delivery Man is a phenomenal movie and I can’t wait to add it to my collection. I got the chance to interview some of the cast, and the heart and soul they put into making it….it makes it that much more special. 

  43. Sally T. says

    March 21, 2014 at 12:15 am

    Having a child changed me for the good,I finally got the Best Friend I could ever have.
    I went through all the stages with my daughter~but looking back now,I wouldn’t change a thing.
    My daughter taught me:
    Perseverance,challenge,responsibility,priorities,and above all patience.
    My daughter is an only child,but,you would never know as she has always shared,even her Teachers
    would comment what a gracious child she was.
    She is my Best Friend~and I Love her.   

  44. Glenda says

    March 21, 2014 at 1:12 am

    i’ve learned more patience, to nevver say “never” and that I WILL say the things my mom said when I was a kid.  It’s made me more humble, more wise and wise enough to know I don’t know everything I thought I did.

  45. Natalie Brown says

    March 21, 2014 at 1:35 am

    Hi! My son changed me in many ways but, the most important that comes to mind, is the ability to listen & respond. Instead of “knowing” what to say, I learned to actually hear what he’s saying & calmly and encouragingly give him the information he needs or wants. It’s hard to explain. So, I hope that makes sense. lol Thank-you!

  46. Cynthia P says

    March 21, 2014 at 3:39 am

    I am so confused.  I usually do not have trouble comprehending sweepstakes rules, but yours (above) have me totally flummoxed!  Perhaps it’s because I”m so very un-savvy when it comes to technological computer situations / applications.  So, I will just tell you this:

    My life have totally changed after raising, teaching and mentoring many children over the years, due to the fact that my patience has grown 100-fold.  I now have much greater mercy, compassion and understanding when one does not follow through on responsibilities or is just having an intolerable day.  I have learned so very, very much!

  47. Rosey says

    March 21, 2014 at 6:37 am

    My kids have changed me for the better by making me more aware of how important it is to just listen!

    Thanks for hosting the giveaway.

  48. Teresa says

    March 21, 2014 at 6:44 am

    Although it took a long time and many years of frustration, my kids caused me to be more patient!

  49. Jenny says

    March 21, 2014 at 7:07 am

    I hear people say this all the time and I don’t agree. I’m still the same geeky weirdo I was before having kids 😛 Only now I have someone to share all that geekiness with. Thank god he’s not a grease monkey like this father xD

  50. Tamar says

    March 21, 2014 at 7:40 am

    My kids have made me more caring and appreciative of what I have in life.

  51. Tracey says

    March 21, 2014 at 8:27 am

    I am not a mom yet but I can only imagine how much your kids shape you and make you grow as a person

  52. Gitisha says

    March 21, 2014 at 8:42 am

    Having kids made me realize what unconditional love it. Also, in this rush and trying to get everything done mode, they make me slow down and appreciate tiny things. I wouldnt change that for anything. 

  53. Lauren E. says

    March 21, 2014 at 8:54 am

    My daughter taught me to be more responsible in my own life, but also taught me we never really grow up and can have fun.

  54. Toni says

    March 21, 2014 at 9:14 am

    I loved Delivery man, it was such a great movie!  And yes, having kids totally changes you.

  55. Angie says

    March 21, 2014 at 9:27 am

    They have brought my Faith to a whole new level. They have made me realize that I need to be more active in my faith and that my husband and I are the first and most influential part of thier faith development.

  56. nancy bowers says

    March 21, 2014 at 10:06 am

    I learned that others needs must be first, patience, and it is necessary to be consistent.

  57. Christina S says

    March 21, 2014 at 10:07 am

    Having kids has definitely changed me. I’m currently a SAHM. It’s really not in my make-up to be a SAHM, but at the same time, it breaks my heart to even think about putting them in daycare. I never thought anything about it until they were here.

  58. Lauren E. says

    March 21, 2014 at 11:16 am

    My daughter made me drastically more patient and responsible. She’s shown me how to stand in awe and delight for the small things in life too. 

  59. Dina says

    March 21, 2014 at 11:30 am

    They do change you so. I cried during Delivery Man also. You are not alone!

  60. Malis says

    March 21, 2014 at 11:31 am

    I’ve learned to let the little stuff go. I don’t worry so much about things that don’t effect major issues of life.

  61. Maggie S. says

    March 21, 2014 at 11:39 am

    My kids have driven me into the arms of God; they’ve helped me see myself as He sees me.

  62. Krissy says

    March 21, 2014 at 11:52 am

    When I got pregnant with my first daughter I was living the wild life – partyin’ it up, drinking, and living like I well, shouldn’t. Getting pregnant with my first actually saved my life. Gone were the cares to meet up with my friends and party into the wee hours of the morning. Now after 3, I can say I look forward to the weekends just to be able to spend more time with my kids; I hate to go anywhere fun without them because I don’t want them to miss out, and all 3 of them dress better then I do, lol>
    They were my lifesavers, and I thank God for them every day!

  63. Linda Kish says

    March 21, 2014 at 12:14 pm

    My son is grown now but I raised him as a single parent.  He had ADHD and OCD among other alphabet diagnoses.  Through him I learned patience, acceptance and tolerance. It was a struggle but we came out great and are best friends. 

  64. Thomas Gibson says

    March 21, 2014 at 12:43 pm

    My daughter has taught me how to accept others without judging. Everyone has something to contribute to society.

  65. Ann Fantom says

    March 21, 2014 at 12:51 pm

    My daughter has made me smarter! She is always asking me questions about things I don’t know (or forgot!). Thank goodness for Google!

  66. Krystal says

    March 21, 2014 at 12:51 pm

    Great giveaway! My son has made me more understanding, more patient, and gives me the drive to live a healthy, long life!

  67. McKim says

    March 21, 2014 at 12:53 pm

    Having kids has made me more active.

  68. Sweta Sonulkar says

    March 21, 2014 at 1:05 pm

    Having first son changed a lot about being patience,confidence and his health high-lows made us keep trust and hope of taking care of him both husband and wife together and that made us bring more close and made our relation strong enough to bare them all and yet find peace,happiness and now after 4 years I am pregnant with second baby ,feeling all the nightmares gone through first but still seeing my son’s face i feel on top of the world that I sacrificed my career for good and having kids are blessing

  69. Cynthia C says

    March 21, 2014 at 4:18 pm

    Becoming a parent has made me a more generous, patient and understanding person.

  70. Michelle L. says

    March 21, 2014 at 4:34 pm

    Being a mom has made me more patient. I roll with the punches more than I ever have before.

  71. Desiree M. says

    March 21, 2014 at 4:47 pm

    Being a mom has changed me in so many ways. I have a 2 year old and a 4 month old. I’m much more aware of my surroundings now since having kids. I’m also more aware of what others are wearing and what I think would be appropriate for my kids. They have also given me the drive I needed to start being healthy.

  72. Deborah Stinson says

    March 21, 2014 at 5:04 pm

    My kids changed me by showing me how important family is; how I should stop yelling and calm down and how life is too short.

  73. Natalie says

    March 21, 2014 at 5:44 pm

    My niece and nephew have taught me to appreciate the people in my life and recognize the importance of relationships. They also have taught me to make a conscious effort to be happy and pleasure the little things in life. They have taught me not to take life too seriously and don’t sweat the small stuff.

  74. Heather R says

    March 21, 2014 at 6:06 pm

    when I got pregnant, I was only working part time, and drifting in my life.  my daughter made me put my life together and become a proper grownup in a hurry!

  75. Stephanie V. says

    March 21, 2014 at 6:09 pm

    One way is looking at things through a child’s eyes and recognizing that some of the simplest things in life are the best and not to stress too much!
    tvollowitz at aol dot com

  76. rich bart says

    March 21, 2014 at 6:36 pm

    my kids have taught the value of simple moments of being…with them

  77. RONDA says

    March 21, 2014 at 6:42 pm

    As a Mom, I never stop praying for my sons.

  78. Natalie says

    March 21, 2014 at 6:53 pm

    My niece has taught me to not take things too seriously and make a conscious choice to be happy.

  79. Leah B says

    March 21, 2014 at 6:54 pm

    it’s made me a much less selfish person and made me realize how important it is to support friends and family who also have kids.

  80. Jessica says

    March 21, 2014 at 9:53 pm

    My child has taught my the true meaning of patience .

  81. Kiara says

    March 21, 2014 at 10:32 pm

     By making me less selfish.
    austma7@aol.com

  82. Christina says

    March 21, 2014 at 11:00 pm

    My kids have changed my life for the better because before I met my husband I was going down a long self destructing path that would most likely have left me in a horrible place. My kids and my Husband have made me realize how important I am to others and Made me put other people ahead of myself. They are the reason I get up in the morning and laugh, smile, enjoy life. God has truly blessed me with my husband and two kids. They’re my world!!!!!!!

  83. Amy @ The Nifty Foodie says

    March 21, 2014 at 11:53 pm

    I don’t have a kid, but I have a dog who is my “kid”. 🙂 She’s taught me to be happier, in general. I love how dogs are always happy!

  84. Sally T. says

    March 22, 2014 at 3:06 am

    If I won the gift,I would take my daughter for a day out,spa,lunch.
    That would be fun for some Mom-Daughter time.

  85. Catherine L. says

    March 22, 2014 at 4:58 am

    I have no biological children, but my nieces, nephews, god kids and steps have taught me that my mom and dad were right about everything!

  86. Anastasia says

    March 22, 2014 at 5:04 am

    My kids have taught me better critical thinking as well as better compromising 🙂   I need both in order to watch out for my kids best interest, as well as balancing freedom with good choices 🙂 

  87. Kenda Smith says

    March 22, 2014 at 7:27 am

    It’s so true that things are grey after you have kids. I find myself changing up ‘the rules’ a lot because of how the situation plays out. And patience…wow. I didn’t realize I could be SO patient lol

  88. jose benavides says

    March 22, 2014 at 7:37 am

    They have changed me for the better because I use to be an alcoholic and now I am a stay at home dad who dedicates all his time to them and make sure they prosper in life because my father wasn’t their for me ..

  89. Felicia says

    March 22, 2014 at 8:17 am

    Being a mom has definitely changed me and for the better.  I feel like I am a better counselor because I can see all of those teens as someoene’s baby.  It has made me more understanding and even a little more laid back surprisingly.

  90. g. penrod says

    March 22, 2014 at 8:25 am

    well as a mother I was always busy….now that I am a grandmother I regret that I did not or could not smell the roses

  91. Tari Lawson says

    March 22, 2014 at 8:27 am

    My kids have taught me to slow down and appreciate the smaller things.

  92. One Frugal Girl says

    March 22, 2014 at 10:03 am

    That your heart can fill with more love than you could ever imagine.
    onefrugalgirl AT gmail DOT com

  93. Melinda@LookWhatMomFound...andDadtoo says

    March 22, 2014 at 10:37 am

    my kids have changed my heart. I used to live life for just me now I have a real purpose. 

  94. Cassie @ Southeast by Midwest says

    March 22, 2014 at 11:30 am

    7 soccer games in one day?! I hope you really really REALLY like soccer.

  95. Stefani says

    March 22, 2014 at 12:24 pm

    Having kids and raising a family of six definitely has changed me. I wouldn’t change it though, I love being a mom!

  96. Elizabeth says

    March 22, 2014 at 1:15 pm

    I don’t have kids yet, but the kids in my life have given me a new perspective!

  97. Erika says

    March 22, 2014 at 1:45 pm

    They have shown me how beautiful it is to be selfless.

    chambanachik(at)gmail(dot)com

  98. Sarah Hirsch says

    March 22, 2014 at 2:42 pm

    my kids have changed me for the better because i want to set a better example for them

  99. Susan Smith says

    March 22, 2014 at 2:44 pm

    Being a Mom has made me more patient, loving and more responsible. It also has made me less selfish.

  100. Debbie Jackson says

    March 22, 2014 at 4:01 pm

    Being a mom has made me a more caring, compassionate and responsible adult.

  101. paige chandler says

    March 22, 2014 at 6:05 pm

    They have given me patience, understanding, and the ability to unconditional love.

  102. Denise S says

    March 22, 2014 at 7:14 pm

    Its made me more responsible and concerned about the future of the country.
    lazybones344 at gmail dot com

  103. Deborah Wellenstein says

    March 22, 2014 at 7:57 pm

    I’m a lot more patient than I used to be.  I actually consider other people before i act!  

  104. Linda G. says

    March 22, 2014 at 10:33 pm

    they keep me active

  105. Lisa Brown says

    March 23, 2014 at 8:21 am

    Having children has taught me patience, which was a big problem for me. You cannot be impatient with children at all, and with my new-found patience, it has made other areas of my life better, especially relationships with others. I find the care of children rewarding and watching them grow and change is wonderful.

  106. BusyWorkingMama says

    March 23, 2014 at 11:37 am

    I can see the happiness, wonder and beauty in the world through my daughter’s eyes.  It is amazing the little things you appreciate with a child in your life.

  107. janna johnson says

    March 23, 2014 at 12:47 pm

    I don’t have kids, but the kids at my job remind me that they are resilant.

  108. Aly says

    March 23, 2014 at 10:03 pm

    My son has totally refocused my priorities and forced me to slow down, be patient and appreciate the small things (like a small little ladybug crawling across the sidewalk).  It’s been great to see life through his eyes.

  109. Jennifer Daniell says

    March 24, 2014 at 4:32 am

    I am more patient and think about the foods we consume more now. ha.

  110. Ashley Irby says

    March 24, 2014 at 7:45 am

    My son changed my life when he was born. Made me grow up & think about him before I do anything. He’s my world. 🙂

  111. Jara Christensen says

    March 24, 2014 at 8:34 am

    My kids have made me a better time manager!  I never even really knew how to manage tasks and plan before I had kids.  

  112. Jennifer Bullock {MommyBKnowsBest} says

    March 24, 2014 at 9:54 am

    Being a mom has definitely changed me for the better. I’m more patient, I give more grace to others, I too realize that not everything is the end of the world, I pick my battles, and I love more and take more time for people. I want to be the best example they have and while I’ll never be perfect changes in that direction are always for the best.

  113. Amy says

    March 24, 2014 at 12:53 pm

    Having a child certainly changed me for the better. Because my child is so laid-back in comparison to me, he’s teaching me about another approach to life — a better, easier approach to life. I learn from him not to sweat the small stuff. He’s an amazing teacher!

  114. DESIREE H says

    March 24, 2014 at 9:01 pm

    We tried for a year to have a baby, and then finally found out we were having twins. They have changed our lives for the better. My husband and I have gotten closer to God because of the things we went through trying to get pregnant and my son being in the Nicu (5 weeks early).
    We do not drink anymore, we are more patient, we both appreciate the little things in life more, and we just dedicate our lives and time to our kids. They are such a blessing and truly are the GREATEST gift!!
    Thank you!!
    faithrains2387 (At) Yahoo.com

  115. ELIZA ELLIOT says

    March 24, 2014 at 10:33 pm

    My kids have made me a better person…more unselfish and thinking more of others all the time.

  116. Deirdre says

    March 25, 2014 at 2:03 pm

    My children have taught me unconditional love, but they have also taught me the importance of standing up for what I believe in (and what is best for my family). Thanks!

  117. Rebecca Orr says

    March 25, 2014 at 3:40 pm

    Having my kids has made me more forgiving. I am more will I got give others second chances. Before I had them, if people crossed me the wrong way, I just cut them out of my life. I knew I couldn’t do that every time my son or daughter threw a tantrum or didn’t pick up their toys. 

  118. Emmy says

    March 25, 2014 at 7:55 pm

    Being a mom has changed me in helping me realize I have more love in my heart than I ever thought possible.  It has also helped me to be so much more compassionate and understanding as sometime no matter how many things you do “right” something will just go wrong, but at the end of the day when they are peacefully sleeping in bed you can remember why you are doing the best thing ever. 

  119. Jessie C. says

    March 25, 2014 at 11:20 pm

    Kids are the reason I want to stay healthier and enjoy life with them.
    tcarolinep at gmail dot com

  120. joni says

    March 27, 2014 at 4:34 am

    I stay active which keeps me healthier. I learned my daughter is the reason I was put on this earth and get to relive my life through my her.

  121. Danalee Davis says

    March 27, 2014 at 6:35 am

    My children have taught me the true meaning of love and giving of myself.

  122. Shannon says

    March 27, 2014 at 10:36 am

    I’m so much less judgmental than I used to be. I thought I had all the answers, parenting is humbling

  123. Heather S says

    March 28, 2014 at 1:16 am

    My kiddos have taught me to not take myself or life too seriously 🙂

  124. Mary A says

    March 28, 2014 at 1:33 am

    I learned a lot of things about this world by raising children as their experiences were different than mine growing up.

  125. rachel says

    March 28, 2014 at 1:14 pm

    Lots of joy, laughter, tears and prayer!!

  126. Steve Stone says

    March 29, 2014 at 12:46 pm

    I learn new things daily from my children.

  127. Stephanie Galbraith says

    March 29, 2014 at 3:37 pm

    Well before I had kids, I had absolutely no patience. I always credit my immense amount of patience to my children.

  128. gina says

    March 29, 2014 at 5:08 pm

    My son has definitely made me more in tune to living in in the moment

  129. Ashley H says

    March 29, 2014 at 8:44 pm

    She taught me patience and unconditional love.

  130. sandra says

    March 31, 2014 at 2:16 pm

    i’m able to relate to others better

  131. Traci says

    March 31, 2014 at 8:13 pm

    Its taugt me to not sweat the small things and cherish family above all.

  132. Barbara M says

    March 31, 2014 at 9:44 pm

    Having the kids has changed me for the better a lot.
    Especially with learning to trust my own judgment and become a better listener.
    thank you

  133. D Schmidt says

    April 1, 2014 at 3:23 pm

    Having children changed me in so many ways, I definitely became less selfish but more importantly I realized I had to take better care of myself because I was responsible for more than just my happiness in life.

  134. joe gersch says

    April 1, 2014 at 6:22 pm

    my kids have taught me to be patient and a good role model

  135. Tina M says

    April 1, 2014 at 9:50 pm

    they made me a better person ,stronger and more patience.

  136. courtney b says

    April 2, 2014 at 2:14 pm

    since i’ve had kids i really feel like i know how to love more.. or at least care about people in general more.

  137. amy pugmire says

    April 2, 2014 at 7:00 pm

    I am no longer selfish. I have a reason to be a better person. To be happy and they have taught me to love unconditionally. They are the best!

  138. Randi Cook says

    April 6, 2014 at 1:21 pm

    My kids have taught me to have patience!  Which I had none of before they were here!

  139. Cori Westphal says

    April 6, 2014 at 9:30 pm

    My kids have taught me that working out your energy by exercise and being physical can keep your mood up!

    coriwestphal at msn dot com

  140. Andrea says

    April 7, 2014 at 1:04 am

    Having a child busted my heart right open. I can see it living outside of my body, you know? 

    I know you know. 😉

  141. Terri Moore says

    April 7, 2014 at 2:59 am

    I can honestly say that having kids helped me to grow up in a lot of ways. I had to learn to be dependable and be a woman of my word. If I had promised something then I needed to do it to the best of my ability. It has definitely changed me for the better and I love them for that.

  142. Tracie says

    April 7, 2014 at 9:08 am

    My kid has helped me to become more patient. And she has taught me to have more fun.

  143. mysweetiepiepie says

    April 7, 2014 at 6:09 pm

    I’ve learned a lot about patience and the power of laughter. 

  144. Ashley says

    April 7, 2014 at 10:35 pm

    I think they have made me more creative And taught me to appreciate the little things 

  145. Wanda McHenry says

    April 8, 2014 at 1:26 am

    I only have a furbaby, I was unfortunate and couldn’t carry. But, she is our joy and she brings so much love and happiness to our life.

  146. Melissa says

    April 8, 2014 at 10:17 am

    My kids have helped me have more fun – not being so serious. And also that stuff is just stuff. Life is more important. As the oldest prepares for college, I’m sure I’ll learn even more!

  147. Kerry says

    April 8, 2014 at 7:41 pm

    My kids have taught me selflessness and a deeper love than I’ve ever known!

  148. amanda whiltey says

    April 9, 2014 at 12:02 am

    my kids have taught me so much. first and foremost they taught me to love unconditionally and be selfless. they have taught me to be patient. they have taught me to grow up since i had my first child young. 

  149. tara pittman says

    April 9, 2014 at 12:53 am

    Kids add so much more meaning to life and bring such joy

  150. Debbie B says

    April 9, 2014 at 11:39 pm

    I learned that even if everything isn’t perfect – hey its ok!

  151. amanda hardesty says

    April 10, 2014 at 12:47 am

    My kids have made me more aware of others feelings and much more calm too. I used to be very wild and did a lot of craziness before them!

  152. Gianna says

    April 10, 2014 at 4:04 pm

    They’ve made me a more giving person.

  153. maria cantu says

    April 10, 2014 at 6:08 pm

    to put others needs first

  154. kjasus says

    April 11, 2014 at 8:28 am

    being a parent has made me slow down and enjoy every moment

  155. Misty Lunceford says

    April 11, 2014 at 9:29 pm

    They have showed me how to pause and enjoy the little things in life! 

  156. cw says

    April 11, 2014 at 10:14 pm

    My daughter has made me learn to laugh more and see the joy in the everyday

  157. Rod Jackson says

    April 12, 2014 at 3:08 pm

    My kids have changed me for the better because I now look at things with wonder, excitement and don’t stress the small things. My kids make each day better by being a part of it.

  158. margie hanks says

    April 12, 2014 at 5:16 pm

    my kids have made me a more patient and humble person.

  159. Julie says

    April 13, 2014 at 3:35 pm

    I have changed for the better by putting others before myself and having more patient. Thanks for the giveaway

  160. Robin says

    April 13, 2014 at 5:22 pm

    My kids have made me look at the world thru their eyes and adjusted my view of the world.

  161. Lisa V. says

    April 13, 2014 at 8:02 pm

    Because I had my daughter at such a young age, I had to grow up quite quickly and become a responsible adult and parent.

  162. Seyma Shabbir says

    April 14, 2014 at 12:27 am

    I have 2 sons and they have made me more patient. I learn to listen and take my time with people.

  163. Betty C says

    April 14, 2014 at 1:53 am

    I grew up with my children. I was a military wife so far from home and had 5 children by the age of 24. I learned everything from them, especially how to fight back for them when my nature is to avoid confrontation.

  164. Anna Pry says

    April 14, 2014 at 10:28 am

    they have helped me be less selfish and more patient pryfamily5@gmail.com

  165. Ceinwyn R says

    April 14, 2014 at 2:10 pm

    Having children had forced me to be more patient and to not go over the edge when I get overwhelmed. I used to be pretty easily frazzled but when I have to parent both kids, by myself most of the time, overreacting simply isn’t an option.

  166. Douglas Houston says

    April 14, 2014 at 4:55 pm

    My kid ahs taught that being a parent is hard, exhausting work. Fun and frustrating at the same time. I may sound remorseful but I wouldn’t miss out on seeing my kid grow up for the world.

  167. Erica C. says

    April 15, 2014 at 12:57 am

    Made me realize it’s okay not to control everything.

  168. Aaron Bush says

    April 15, 2014 at 1:41 am

    My child taught me what love really is. 

  169. michelle jacobsen says

    April 15, 2014 at 1:45 am

    I learned to be a lot more patient and understanding when people have disabilities.

  170. wild orchid says

    April 15, 2014 at 6:29 am

    My son has made me a much more patient person, and he makes me take the time to stop and appreciate the little things.

    Thanks for the chance to win!

    wildorchid985 at gmail dot com

  171. Neiddy says

    April 15, 2014 at 8:26 am

    My kids have taught me to be excited about life and pay attention to the little things

  172. Nancy says

    April 15, 2014 at 10:45 am

    They make you slow down and see the world from a different view. It seems that until you have kids you don’t appreciate the little things…..things you used to just walk by and never gave a thought to.

  173. jules m. says

    April 15, 2014 at 3:30 pm

    they taught me to laugh again- to enjoy simple things, and to put less importance on my own needs

  174. Nicole Larsen says

    April 15, 2014 at 3:56 pm

    My kids have made me to constantly strive to be the best mom I can…I quit smoking 5 years ago for them…I’m always trying to set a positive example for them. I was an adventure seeker before them…now I’m much more cautious about EVERYTHING!

  175. Liz says

    April 15, 2014 at 5:23 pm

    Kids made me better. Who knows what I would be doing right now without all of them!

  176. Daniel M says

    April 15, 2014 at 6:49 pm

    they often tell it like it is

  177. Shannon says

    April 15, 2014 at 10:52 pm

    My children taught me unconditional love. I totally learned to enjoy every moment!

  178. Holly W says

    April 16, 2014 at 12:55 am

    I have three wonderful kids and my kids have changed me for the better because I was a teen mom who married her high school sweetheart. But before I got pregnant with my oldest I was hanging out with the bad kids and if it weren’t for me having my son I would of probably been a wild person. 

  179. rose paden says

    April 16, 2014 at 1:31 am

    I don’t have any of my own yet. We tried and I lost my first one, so I am taking a break and collecting my thoughts before we try again.  I am a god-parent and have many children in my family that are always with me! I wouldn’t know what to do if they were not in my life! They keep me going even though they are not mine! 

  180. krystal wethington says

    April 16, 2014 at 2:04 am

    We are trying to have a baby.We both really want one and I know we would be great parents.

  181. April V. says

    April 16, 2014 at 5:42 am

    I definitely get out and about more and get more exercise, though I have less ‘personal’ time!

  182. Melissa Rohlfs says

    April 16, 2014 at 7:51 am

    it forced me to slow down.

  183. Katie Marks says

    April 16, 2014 at 8:31 am

    My kids have changed me for the better in so many ways. They have made me appreciate things more. They’ve made me stop and slow down and pay attention to the little things. They’ve developed patience within me. They’ve taught me it’s okay to be messy and to jump in puddles. They’ve expanded within me a love that I didn’t know existed until they came along.

  184. Karen Drake says

    April 16, 2014 at 9:46 am

    My kids have changed me for the better by making me see life through their young eyes, kids are so positive and see the best in life and other people.

  185. Deb says

    April 16, 2014 at 10:12 am

    My kids taught me patience is a virtue. I try not to rush through things as much and take the sit back and smell the roses philosophy these days.

  186. ESTELA KLEMP says

    April 16, 2014 at 10:59 am

    I’ve learned patience and to live in the moment. They grow up too fast.

  187. Jamie Hamilton says

    April 16, 2014 at 11:26 am

    Being a mom to 3 furry kids has made me more responsible and more receptive to their needs.

  188. latanya says

    April 16, 2014 at 11:33 am

    I am more patient and I enjoy the simple things of life more.

  189. Jacqueline Weiskopff says

    April 16, 2014 at 11:57 am

    I did a lot of growing up and became very independent as a parent.

  190. Erica Best says

    April 16, 2014 at 12:16 pm

    teaching and help my nephew has help with more patient

  191. Melissa says

    April 16, 2014 at 12:31 pm

    My kids have taught me love and compromise!

  192. Jennifer Barr says

    April 16, 2014 at 1:00 pm

    My kids have taught me to have patience

  193. Diane Baum says

    April 16, 2014 at 1:57 pm

    My two sons have helped me to laugh more, and not take things as serious. they made me understand that a house doesn’t have to be spotless, just lived in.

  194. mariem says

    April 16, 2014 at 2:44 pm

    I feel like having kids made me live in the moment, and taught me what was really important. Being a mom is the best thing in my life. I love my kids more than anything.
    4mariemh    atgmaildot com

  195. Tanya Bartlett says

    April 16, 2014 at 4:20 pm

    They have changed me for the better by teaching me patience

  196. Bruce says

    April 16, 2014 at 6:07 pm

    Teaching me time management

  197. Ellie W says

    April 16, 2014 at 6:34 pm

    My kids have changed me completely. The minute I had my first son I knew that the world wasn’t all about me anymore. For the first time I experienced true selflessness. I have 3 grown sons and 2 grandsons now and they are the most important things in the world to me.

  198. Sarah Hall says

    April 16, 2014 at 6:36 pm

    My kids taught me to love unconditionally and to not panic easily.

  199. Kristen says

    April 16, 2014 at 7:04 pm

    Kids help you see the world with new eyes and they remind you about what is *really* important. Also they keep you honest, as they are always watching so you want to be a good person as an example!

  200. Karrie Millheim says

    April 16, 2014 at 8:25 pm

    My kids changed everything about me. They taught me to love unconditionally. They taught me responsibility. They taught me life is not about myself but about those I love. God blessed me when he gave me kids

  201. nuronerd says

    April 16, 2014 at 8:28 pm

    My kids really help me appreciate the little things in life. The wonderment they have at discovering new things is contagious.

  202. MARIA simon says

    April 16, 2014 at 9:26 pm

    NOT SURE HOW I LIVED MY LIFE WITHOUT THEM… I NEVER KNEW HOW MUCH OF A BLESSING THEY COULD BE.. I AM SO BLESSED AND SO IS EVERY PARENT OUT THERE THANKS FOR THE CHANCE TO WIN THIS 🙂

  203. Sherry Conrad says

    April 16, 2014 at 9:48 pm

    Being a parent definitely made me look at the larger picture more, how what I do affects not only myself, but my family and the world around me.

  204. Sky Evans says

    April 16, 2014 at 9:58 pm

    They have made me compassionate.

  205. RANDI COOK says

    April 16, 2014 at 10:09 pm

    Having children taught me to put other’s first before myself!  It came slowly but I had to learn to have patients!  But the greatest thing I learned is unconditional love!

  206. Vikki Billings says

    April 16, 2014 at 11:27 pm

    My kids changed me by making me a better person, more honest, loving and caring. They also make me a more patient person. I love my kids and they are my world.

  207. Francine Anchondo says

    April 16, 2014 at 11:29 pm

    My kids have taught me patience and to appreciate the little things

  208. CharityS says

    April 16, 2014 at 11:45 pm

    My son gives me a reason to live each day. 

  209. CharityS says

    April 16, 2014 at 11:47 pm

    http://twitter.com/ccboobooy/status/456639902671577089

  210. Beverly Metcalf says

    April 17, 2014 at 12:01 am

    I have raised 3 great kids. They work hard and do a lot to help others, too. Thanks for having this contest.

  211. Lori Taube says

    April 17, 2014 at 12:07 am

    My three kids have definitely made me evaluate who I am and the way I do everything. It’s difficult to remember sometimes that my kids see and hear everything, but it really makes me strive to become a better person!

  212. Corey Olomon says

    April 17, 2014 at 12:12 am

    I’m much more patient now.

  213. Tabathia B says

    April 17, 2014 at 12:31 am

    They have taught me unconditional love and provided me with so much joy

    tbarrettno1 at gmail dot com

  214. Crystal F says

    April 17, 2014 at 5:26 am

    My girls have made me braver. I won’t hesitate to stand up for them. I use to be too shy to stand up for myself but they’ve brought me out of my shell. Thank you!

  215. tracey byram says

    April 17, 2014 at 7:21 am

    My kids taught me patience and letting go to have fun.

  216. Amanda Sakovitz says

    April 17, 2014 at 9:25 am

    They have taught me to be more patient.

  217. susan smoaks says

    April 17, 2014 at 9:28 am

    my kids taught me to enjoy the little things in life.  life is too short to be mad.

  218. Carolyn Daley says

    April 17, 2014 at 9:32 am

    My nephew has taught me patience. 

  219. vivian says

    April 17, 2014 at 9:33 am

    taught me patence.

  220. Tim Moss says

    April 17, 2014 at 9:56 am

    We don’t have kids. Can we still enter the giveaway?

  221. Kristin Duncan says

    April 17, 2014 at 10:49 am

    I have learned to be less selfish.

  222. Heather Swarthout says

    April 17, 2014 at 11:23 am

    My daughter has taught me patience and taught me to multi-task more than ever!

  223. Thomas Murphy says

    April 17, 2014 at 12:48 pm

    My kids have made my alot more responsible and caring.

  224. Laurie Emerson says

    April 17, 2014 at 1:20 pm

    My kids have changed me for the better by helping me to slow down and enjoy all the little things in life. They help me to see just about everything in a brand new light and appreciate all the small beautiful things like a dandelion in our yard or watching a bird eat out of our bird feeder.

  225. Julie Wood says

    April 17, 2014 at 1:37 pm

    My son and daughter have changed me for the good by showing me how to have patient. I am very  impatient, but having children helps me be more patient and understanding, especially of other family members. They have taught me unconditional love and how to forgive! 

  226. thischickwins says

    April 17, 2014 at 2:15 pm

    they’ve made me much more patient and they remind me to see the beauty in the small things

  227. Sand says

    April 17, 2014 at 4:47 pm

    I don’t have kids yet but all my nieces and nephews remind me about what’s most important in life like family and memories and never giving up.

  228. AEKZ2 says

    April 17, 2014 at 5:17 pm

    My children have changed me for the better because they make me laugh so much! The things that sometime come out of children’s mouths are hilarious.

  229. Mihaela Day says

    April 17, 2014 at 5:45 pm

    My kids taught me love and patience 🙂

  230. Misa says

    April 17, 2014 at 6:17 pm

    I didn’t have kids the “traditional way”. I became a stepmother, then full-time mom when his mother passed away. Having a kid has made me more patient and compassionate. It’s also helped me look at life a little “lighter”.

  231. Sarah L says

    April 17, 2014 at 6:42 pm

    I’ve never had kids. I think they teach you to live in the moment.

    Thanks for the contest.

  232. Janice Cooper says

    April 17, 2014 at 7:56 pm

    Made me more patient

  233. Rosey says

    April 17, 2014 at 8:59 pm

    One way my kids have changed me for the better is that they’ve made me far, far, far, far less selfish of a person.  

  234. Candie L says

    April 17, 2014 at 9:31 pm

    I have learned it is okay for them not to be perfect (or me). Thank you

  235. Heather Silver says

    April 17, 2014 at 9:39 pm

    I don’t have kids, but my fiancé has a 6 and 8 year old. They have changed my life for the better because they have taught me to cherish the small moments, never forget to laugh, patience and most of all unconditional love.

  236. tina reynolds says

    April 17, 2014 at 10:51 pm

    I understand love so much more and the future is even more important I have a million times more patience. I also use to wish for time to fly by (growup) and now I wish it would slow down. 

  237. Cheryl W. says

    April 17, 2014 at 11:19 pm

    Having children has changed my life for the better because it makes me feel like I am a bigger part of just being me. My kids have made me the woman I am today, and I am so much better off then I was in my youth.

  238. Eugenie says

    April 19, 2014 at 2:52 am

    Children make me more responsive to others needs.

  239. Lee says

    April 19, 2014 at 3:10 am

    Made me more responsible.

  240. Ashley Tucker says

    April 19, 2014 at 10:09 am

    Kids in my life make me have more patience!

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