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September 29, 2010 by: Shell

Pour Your Heart Out: Margaritas All Around

If you need more info about Pour Your Heart Out, see THIS post.
But, really, it’s anything that YOU consider pouring your heart out.
Be sure to check out some of the links- you will find some amazing stories out there.
Again, just a brief reminder that everyone linking is pouring their hearts out and we should all be respectful in our comments. ๐Ÿ˜‰

 

Apparently, I have a problem with reading a calendar and didn’t realize when I registered to go to Type A Mom that it was the week before my brother’s wedding. I somehow thought there was an extra week in between September 24th and October 1st. Sadly, the calendar won out and I was wrong.

So, that put me getting back from being away at the conference for three days….to needing to pack up and leave two days later. As you are reading this, I’m most likely visiting family.

Such crazy timing has put me in a mood to have a random heart pouring. All the things that are weighing on me right now.

Maybe  I should have blogged about the conference first, before continuing my story about my past, because that felt draining. Good, but draining. Thanks so much to everyone for your supportive comments about my story.  Posts about the conference are coming, though, I promise.

This week, I’m visiting family and friends for the first time since we moved almost a year ago. I’m excited, but also stressing as to how I can possibly fit everything in, since we will only be there from Wednesday until Sunday morning…and I have the rehearsal dinner on Friday night and the wedding on Saturday, so that really doesn’t allow a whole lot of extra time.  I wish that I could really get to spend time with everyone that I want to see, but I just don’t see how it’s possible.

My boys absolutely cannot wait to see my best friend’s boys. Which is a total blessing, since I can’t wait to see her, either.  I loved when we lived close and got to see each other every week. She understands me like no one else does. Everyone needs a friend like that.

I planned a night out with my margarita girls. Love them, but it feels weird because I haven’t seen them in so long and we haven’t been great at keeping in touch. Part of me is hurt about this, but another part of me knows that it’s just as much my fault as it is theirs. And no, they don’t know about this blog.

Totally stressing about Monkey’s cat allergies, since my parents have a cat and his eyes now instantly swell up if he’s anywhere near an animal these days. Bright red little slits for eyes will not be attractive in the ring bearer for my brother’s wedding.

When I say parents, I really mean my mom and my stepdad. Though, I will be seeing my father and his wife at the wedding, too. I haven’t talked to them in over 4 years.  By my own choice, because I decided it was the best thing to do for my kids. I’m worried that they are going to cause a scene.

Though, while we’re at it, my mother could cause a scene, too, since she hates that we moved away again.

I’m happy for my brother that he is marrying someone that he loves. I really hope that their day is all that they imagine it to be and that everyone remembers that it is their day and only about them.

*I’m probably going to be a little absent this week since I’m away, but I will catch up with everyone when I can….and next week if I don’t get any computer time while I’m away.

Please link up your Pour Your Heart Out posts: whether you are talking about one topic or you need to get a bunch of random things out like I did this week- remember it’s your definition of pouring your heart out. Please take the time to visit some of the other linkers to share in their stories, too.

I’m Excited to Be Dumb! And The Meaning of Friendship
Type A Moms(who weren’t really Type A)

Comments

  1. We 2 Bees says

    September 29, 2010 at 12:26 am

    Enjoy your time away! It's always hard to fit everyone in, but I'm glad you will be able to see your BFF! That is important!

  2. Cheryl D. says

    September 29, 2010 at 12:30 am

    Have a great time and don't sweat the small stuff!

  3. MommaKiss says

    September 29, 2010 at 12:51 am

    have a good trip. family isn't always about a 'good time' but you know what i mean.
    re: cheryl d above me – my husband used to say "don't sweat the petty stuff and don't pet the sweaty stuff."
    ew right?

  4. From Tracie says

    September 29, 2010 at 1:17 am

    I'll be praying for you this weekend. I know that with seeing your dad this could be very stressful. Hold on to the good stuff!!

  5. Casey says

    September 29, 2010 at 3:23 am

    Have a wonderful time and don't worry to much about what you can and can't do. Just enjoy everything you are able to get in!Praying things go well on all accounts

  6. Simoney says

    September 29, 2010 at 4:24 am

    HEy Shell, I'll be thinking of you at the wedding and hoping it all goes off without drama or fuss. Here's hoping you have a lovely time with all the people you love without any yuck. HUGS.
    luv Simone
    xx

  7. Jessica says

    September 29, 2010 at 6:08 am

    Enjoy your away time!

  8. Sorta Southern Single Mom says

    September 29, 2010 at 6:44 am

    {{{HUGS}}}} Family drama always throws an interesting twist into things. I hope everyone bucks up for your brother's sake and it goes better than you think.

    My link up today is a bit of a doozy, so I'll apologize in advance ! ๐Ÿ™‚

  9. Adrienne says

    September 29, 2010 at 7:22 am

    When you get this comment, just know I am praying for peace! I would have all the same anxieties. It can be exhausting. Try to enjoy the getaway and what family and friends you are able to see. As far as possible scene causing goes…remember you cannot control the actions of others, you can only control your reaction! I'm praying you'll shine. {{{HUGS}}}

  10. Mumsy says

    September 29, 2010 at 7:51 am

    Shell, have a good time at the wedding, and don't stress out. It's easier said than done, I know, but just block them all out.

  11. Angie says

    September 29, 2010 at 8:06 am

    Good luck with your family… that is all I can say… I know it is going to be hard ((hugs))

    I am making Margarita night extra hard since I don't really know the other girls… I can back out if it makes it easier for you.

    My kids are way excited about seeing your kiddo's too!

    I feel like I am pushing myself too much on you this week – if I am causing you any anxiety just tell me and I will step back.

  12. Kmama says

    September 29, 2010 at 8:09 am

    I hope everyone behaves themselves and no one makes a scene!!

    Try to relax and have fun!

  13. Amethyst Moon says

    September 29, 2010 at 8:17 am

    I hope it goes, well. Especially with your Dad. Who knows maybe he's changed? (hopefully wishing for you) I'm sure you'll have so much fun reconnecting with the rest of your family and your friends, that your father will be just a passing thought.
    Have fun!
    hugs

  14. Jenn says

    September 29, 2010 at 8:42 am

    Good luck this week. I know how time with family can be both stressful and a blessing. Will be sending good thoughts your way!

  15. Ian says

    September 29, 2010 at 8:49 am

    Have a great time dude

  16. Di says

    September 29, 2010 at 8:52 am

    I hope you have an enjoyable drama free time and squeeze in as much as you can. We'll miss you out here in bloggy land!

  17. Jennifer says

    September 29, 2010 at 9:06 am

    Family drama… sheesh. It seems like I'm living a little bit of that right now myself. Good luck and I hope you can find some joy and happiness while you are there.

    P.S. I actually did link up two posts that I wrote this week. I thought Pour Your Heart Out was on Tuesdays so I wrote something then, and then last night I felt the need for another post. Hope that's alright.

  18. Oka says

    September 29, 2010 at 9:07 am

    I pray that this week is smooth. I know how stressful these family events can be. I also understand the upset mother because we moved further away bit. Missing you!

  19. Evonne says

    September 29, 2010 at 9:28 am

    I hope the wedding goes as planned and for your sake, and everyone else's, no one causes and scenes!

    That's definitely a lot to squeeze in in a few days, but I'm glad you do have time to hang out with some old friends. I hope you have fun!

  20. Closer to Lucy says

    September 29, 2010 at 9:42 am

    Tagged ya, but it'll still be there when ya get back…

    http://closertolucy.blogspot.com/2010/09/tag-im-it.html

  21. chele says

    September 29, 2010 at 10:12 am

    You certaintly have a lot on your plate. Take a breath, say a prayer and before you know it, you'll be back in the comfort and peace of your own home.

  22. ModernMom says

    September 29, 2010 at 10:47 am

    Oh you have a busy week ahead. Hope you enjoy every moment:)

  23. Renegades says

    September 29, 2010 at 11:14 am

    You are worrying about things that might happen but they might not too.

    Hope everything goes well.

  24. Salt says

    September 29, 2010 at 11:27 am

    My fingers are crossed for your brother and his fiancรฉ. I hope that everyone will be able to leave their drama at the door!

  25. Amanda says

    September 29, 2010 at 11:27 am

    Your family gathering sounds a tad like mine… cringing at the outbursts that might happen ~ usually by my own parents.

    I hope you have a fabulous trip!!

  26. purseblogger says

    September 29, 2010 at 11:40 am

    I hope you have a great time too and that the dramas won't show up. Weddings are a wonderful time. Have fun girl!

  27. MommyLovesStilettos says

    September 29, 2010 at 11:56 am

    Love you! Hope everything goes as planned!!! *HUGS*

  28. DaisyGal says

    September 29, 2010 at 1:14 pm

    hoping your weekend is filled with smiles and love and lots of happiness, that everything goes as smoothly as it can. YOU deserve that. ๐Ÿ™‚

  29. Babes Mami says

    September 29, 2010 at 1:41 pm

    I hope everything is amazing and wonderful and your parents behave!!

    Congrats to your brother!

  30. Tiffany says

    September 29, 2010 at 2:20 pm

    Oh, weddings with family drama are always interesting! Praying for a beautiful, peaceful day!

  31. Natalie says

    September 29, 2010 at 2:22 pm

    Family drama, ugh! Try to enjoy the wedding and ROCK that new dress!

  32. Semi-Slacker Mom says

    September 29, 2010 at 2:51 pm

    One word, Xanax. No seriously, don't worry about anything because whatever happens will just add to the memories. And hopefully your parents have enough couth to not show out at a wedding. Have fun. Drink heavily.

  33. Just Another Mom of 2 says

    September 29, 2010 at 3:05 pm

    Try to enjoy the time away- I know how draining family trips can be though! Will miss chatting with you but enjoy the margarita!

  34. blueviolet says

    September 29, 2010 at 4:37 pm

    What the heck? I finally start blogging again and you go off and make merry elsewhere! Have fun, Shell!

  35. Hutch says

    September 29, 2010 at 4:37 pm

    I used to have those trips when I would visit home from the east coast. They are definitely draining, but so many memories come out of it!

    I know it's unrelated, but your son is in the wedding and you weren't asked to be a bridesmaid? I'm still offended for you ๐Ÿ™‚

  36. Sarah says

    September 29, 2010 at 6:47 pm

    I hope the wedding is wonderful and that the wedding gifts will include NO SCENES!

  37. The Empress says

    September 29, 2010 at 6:58 pm

    Enjoy your time away.

    It'll feel so good, and we can't wait to hear about it..

  38. The Wishful Lamb says

    September 29, 2010 at 7:43 pm

    hope u have a good time hun!

  39. Lisa says

    September 29, 2010 at 8:02 pm

    I hope you are having a FANTASTIC time!!

  40. The Blue Zoo says

    September 29, 2010 at 10:49 pm

    Hope it's all going great!

  41. shortmama says

    September 29, 2010 at 10:50 pm

    Hope you have a great time seeing everyone and no scenes!

  42. The Mommyologist says

    September 30, 2010 at 7:35 am

    Have fun!! Are you guys going out anywhere fun in PIT?? Jealous!!

    I am sure the wedding will be a blast!

  43. Julie says

    September 30, 2010 at 10:00 am

    the word Margarita caught my eye ๐Ÿ™‚

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