Apparently, I have a problem with reading a calendar and didn’t realize when I registered to go to Type A Mom that it was the week before my brother’s wedding. I somehow thought there was an extra week in between September 24th and October 1st. Sadly, the calendar won out and I was wrong.
So, that put me getting back from being away at the conference for three days….to needing to pack up and leave two days later. As you are reading this, I’m most likely visiting family.
Such crazy timing has put me in a mood to have a random heart pouring. All the things that are weighing on me right now.
Maybe I should have blogged about the conference first, before continuing my story about my past, because that felt draining. Good, but draining. Thanks so much to everyone for your supportive comments about my story. Posts about the conference are coming, though, I promise.
This week, I’m visiting family and friends for the first time since we moved almost a year ago. I’m excited, but also stressing as to how I can possibly fit everything in, since we will only be there from Wednesday until Sunday morning…and I have the rehearsal dinner on Friday night and the wedding on Saturday, so that really doesn’t allow a whole lot of extra time. I wish that I could really get to spend time with everyone that I want to see, but I just don’t see how it’s possible.
My boys absolutely cannot wait to see my best friend’s boys. Which is a total blessing, since I can’t wait to see her, either. I loved when we lived close and got to see each other every week. She understands me like no one else does. Everyone needs a friend like that.
I planned a night out with my margarita girls. Love them, but it feels weird because I haven’t seen them in so long and we haven’t been great at keeping in touch. Part of me is hurt about this, but another part of me knows that it’s just as much my fault as it is theirs. And no, they don’t know about this blog.
Totally stressing about Monkey’s cat allergies, since my parents have a cat and his eyes now instantly swell up if he’s anywhere near an animal these days. Bright red little slits for eyes will not be attractive in the ring bearer for my brother’s wedding.
When I say parents, I really mean my mom and my stepdad. Though, I will be seeing my father and his wife at the wedding, too. I haven’t talked to them in over 4 years. By my own choice, because I decided it was the best thing to do for my kids. I’m worried that they are going to cause a scene.
Though, while we’re at it, my mother could cause a scene, too, since she hates that we moved away again.
I’m happy for my brother that he is marrying someone that he loves. I really hope that their day is all that they imagine it to be and that everyone remembers that it is their day and only about them.
*I’m probably going to be a little absent this week since I’m away, but I will catch up with everyone when I can….and next week if I don’t get any computer time while I’m away.
Please link up your Pour Your Heart Out posts: whether you are talking about one topic or you need to get a bunch of random things out like I did this week- remember it’s your definition of pouring your heart out. Please take the time to visit some of the other linkers to share in their stories, too.
Enjoy your time away! It's always hard to fit everyone in, but I'm glad you will be able to see your BFF! That is important!
Have a great time and don't sweat the small stuff!
have a good trip. family isn't always about a 'good time' but you know what i mean.
re: cheryl d above me – my husband used to say "don't sweat the petty stuff and don't pet the sweaty stuff."
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I'll be praying for you this weekend. I know that with seeing your dad this could be very stressful. Hold on to the good stuff!!
Have a wonderful time and don't worry to much about what you can and can't do. Just enjoy everything you are able to get in!Praying things go well on all accounts
HEy Shell, I'll be thinking of you at the wedding and hoping it all goes off without drama or fuss. Here's hoping you have a lovely time with all the people you love without any yuck. HUGS.
luv Simone
xx
Enjoy your away time!
{{{HUGS}}}} Family drama always throws an interesting twist into things. I hope everyone bucks up for your brother's sake and it goes better than you think.
My link up today is a bit of a doozy, so I'll apologize in advance ! ๐
When you get this comment, just know I am praying for peace! I would have all the same anxieties. It can be exhausting. Try to enjoy the getaway and what family and friends you are able to see. As far as possible scene causing goes…remember you cannot control the actions of others, you can only control your reaction! I'm praying you'll shine. {{{HUGS}}}
Shell, have a good time at the wedding, and don't stress out. It's easier said than done, I know, but just block them all out.
Good luck with your family… that is all I can say… I know it is going to be hard ((hugs))
I am making Margarita night extra hard since I don't really know the other girls… I can back out if it makes it easier for you.
My kids are way excited about seeing your kiddo's too!
I feel like I am pushing myself too much on you this week – if I am causing you any anxiety just tell me and I will step back.
I hope everyone behaves themselves and no one makes a scene!!
Try to relax and have fun!
I hope it goes, well. Especially with your Dad. Who knows maybe he's changed? (hopefully wishing for you) I'm sure you'll have so much fun reconnecting with the rest of your family and your friends, that your father will be just a passing thought.
Have fun!
hugs
Good luck this week. I know how time with family can be both stressful and a blessing. Will be sending good thoughts your way!
Have a great time dude
I hope you have an enjoyable drama free time and squeeze in as much as you can. We'll miss you out here in bloggy land!
Family drama… sheesh. It seems like I'm living a little bit of that right now myself. Good luck and I hope you can find some joy and happiness while you are there.
P.S. I actually did link up two posts that I wrote this week. I thought Pour Your Heart Out was on Tuesdays so I wrote something then, and then last night I felt the need for another post. Hope that's alright.
I pray that this week is smooth. I know how stressful these family events can be. I also understand the upset mother because we moved further away bit. Missing you!
I hope the wedding goes as planned and for your sake, and everyone else's, no one causes and scenes!
That's definitely a lot to squeeze in in a few days, but I'm glad you do have time to hang out with some old friends. I hope you have fun!
Tagged ya, but it'll still be there when ya get back…
http://closertolucy.blogspot.com/2010/09/tag-im-it.html
You certaintly have a lot on your plate. Take a breath, say a prayer and before you know it, you'll be back in the comfort and peace of your own home.
Oh you have a busy week ahead. Hope you enjoy every moment:)
You are worrying about things that might happen but they might not too.
Hope everything goes well.
My fingers are crossed for your brother and his fiancรฉ. I hope that everyone will be able to leave their drama at the door!
Your family gathering sounds a tad like mine… cringing at the outbursts that might happen ~ usually by my own parents.
I hope you have a fabulous trip!!
I hope you have a great time too and that the dramas won't show up. Weddings are a wonderful time. Have fun girl!
Love you! Hope everything goes as planned!!! *HUGS*
hoping your weekend is filled with smiles and love and lots of happiness, that everything goes as smoothly as it can. YOU deserve that. ๐
I hope everything is amazing and wonderful and your parents behave!!
Congrats to your brother!
Oh, weddings with family drama are always interesting! Praying for a beautiful, peaceful day!
Family drama, ugh! Try to enjoy the wedding and ROCK that new dress!
One word, Xanax. No seriously, don't worry about anything because whatever happens will just add to the memories. And hopefully your parents have enough couth to not show out at a wedding. Have fun. Drink heavily.
Try to enjoy the time away- I know how draining family trips can be though! Will miss chatting with you but enjoy the margarita!
What the heck? I finally start blogging again and you go off and make merry elsewhere! Have fun, Shell!
I used to have those trips when I would visit home from the east coast. They are definitely draining, but so many memories come out of it!
I know it's unrelated, but your son is in the wedding and you weren't asked to be a bridesmaid? I'm still offended for you ๐
I hope the wedding is wonderful and that the wedding gifts will include NO SCENES!
Enjoy your time away.
It'll feel so good, and we can't wait to hear about it..
hope u have a good time hun!
I hope you are having a FANTASTIC time!!
Hope it's all going great!
Hope you have a great time seeing everyone and no scenes!
Have fun!! Are you guys going out anywhere fun in PIT?? Jealous!!
I am sure the wedding will be a blast!
the word Margarita caught my eye ๐
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