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November 24, 2010 by: Shell

Pour Your Heart Out: A Glass That’s Half-full

If you need more info about Pour Your Heart Out, see THIS post.
But, really, it’s anything that YOU consider pouring your heart out.
Be sure to check out some of the links- you will find some amazing stories out there.
Again, just a brief reminder that everyone linking is pouring their hearts out and we should all be respectful in our comments. πŸ˜‰

 

We are into the holiday season now. Thankgiving, Christmas, New Year’s. It all goes so quickly.
Throw a birthday in there for one of my boys, one of my brothers, my mil, plus a visit from parents and  my sil being due with a baby, and it’s a crazy time.
Holidays usually equal family time. And… y’all, mine could be its own reality freak show with all the drama that goes on.
But, I’ve decided that today, I’m going to look for what I love in my family instead of what drives me crazy. In honor of Thanksgiving, I’m going to be a glass half-full kind of a girl.
I’m thankful that my older brother B has grown into a mature and caring man. He loves his wife and child (and baby on the way) with a passion that I rarely see in anyone. And I’m eternally grateful that he married a woman that I am proud to call my sister.
I’m thankful for my younger brother A, who is now a newlywed. He is the most level-headed person I know…until you tick him off. And when he’s mad or *I*  am mad or hurt or upset in anyway, there is no one else that I’d rather have in my corner. He’d take on the world for those he loves. And he married well, too.

I was trying not to step on my sil’s train or fall off the steps in my heels and break something, so yeah, it’s a little bit of a weird pose, but the only one of my two brothers and me(and obviously my brother’s wife) from when we were together for the wedding in October.

I’m thankful that I have brothers whom I can feel close to, even though I no longer live near them. I miss them, but I love that we are all happily married and building our families. And that, despite whatever craziness is around us, us kids stick together.

I’m going to try to remember all this during the craziness of the holidays. And if I can’t, well, I’ll take that half-full glass and DRINK it. And then pour another.

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Comments

  1. {Simply} BC says

    November 24, 2010 at 1:04 am

    Oh how the holiday craziness can make us forget all this stuff, but it's great stuff to remember. Here's to hoping you and yours have a wonderful holiday season. πŸ™‚

  2. Casey says

    November 24, 2010 at 1:19 am

    This was beautiful Shell!

  3. Sorta Southern Single Mom says

    November 24, 2010 at 7:38 am

    I think what should be the important thing about family… and mine is full of crazy drama too, is that at the end of the day you all still love each other… sounds like you've got that in the bag with your brothers! (The Girl thought the picture of you was me:))

  4. Rebecca says

    November 24, 2010 at 8:14 am

    I'll try, but no promises!!!

    Haha…wait, isn't your blog a secret to your real life peeps? Does it make you nervous to post a real picture?

  5. Adrienne says

    November 24, 2010 at 8:15 am

    Beautiful post. I am realizing that I have taken my family (Crazy as they are) for granted the past few years. This Thanksgiving will be the first time in a long time I will be with all of siblings. I'm really looking forward to it. AND-I'm giving your Sweet Potato Casserole a try! <3

  6. ღ~Mumsy~ღ says

    November 24, 2010 at 8:22 am

    I share the same sentiment about family, Shell..The crazy part stay in the closet, and we just enjoy the moment.

    HAVE A FANTASTIC THANKSGIVING!

  7. Kerri says

    November 24, 2010 at 8:26 am

    My family is sort of like that, you have to enjoy them when you can and that's not always easy. Great job reflecting on the important parts, Have a wonderful Thanksgiving.

  8. Oka says

    November 24, 2010 at 8:28 am

    I envy those who have these relationships with their siblings.

    It makes the holiday feel so much more like a holiday when we can focus on the positives of a family.

  9. Natalie says

    November 24, 2010 at 9:10 am

    So true.. Families are crazy & hectic, but they're what we were given. You know what they say.. If a glass is half full, it just means there's room for more vodka.

    Enjoy this holiday!

  10. Angie says

    November 24, 2010 at 9:16 am

    It is wonderful despite all the ups and downs in your family that you and your brothers were able to stay close!!

  11. Evonne says

    November 24, 2010 at 9:23 am

    This is a great reminder to look at the glass half-full, especially when family and holidays are mixed.

    But definitely don't be afraid to fill that glass up and drink it down!

    Good luck and happy holidays!

  12. Di says

    November 24, 2010 at 9:29 am

    I needed to read that today and be reminded to be thankful.

    Hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving and get a chance to enjoy all the craziness you have coming up!

  13. Ma What's 4 dinner says

    November 24, 2010 at 9:30 am

    I might have to drink more than one "half full" glass to get through this thing! Cheers!

    Lots of yummy love,
    Alex aka Ma What's For Dinner
    http://www.mawhats4dinner.com

  14. Kmama says

    November 24, 2010 at 9:31 am

    Cute picture of all of you. Love the dress (and so glad you finally posted one!).

    Have a happy Thanksgiving and drink as much as you need to!

  15. Brittney says

    November 24, 2010 at 9:51 am

    aww how sweet. and that last line was too funny!

  16. Melinda says

    November 24, 2010 at 10:16 am

    Very sweet post, Shell! ;0) Focusing on our blessings always makes us feel positive doesn't, it? Hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving!

    p.s. Hope you got the email I sent you about Tweetmeme …

  17. natalee says

    November 24, 2010 at 10:25 am

    awwww very sweet!!!! Happy Thanksgiving my friend…. and thank you for being an inspiration….

  18. Kaylee says

    November 24, 2010 at 11:10 am

    Another wonderful post πŸ™‚ this is so sweet! You have so much to be thankful for, we all do.

  19. gopopgo says

    November 24, 2010 at 11:40 am

    "And then pour another. "

    1/2 full?! Why bother? I like to look at life as glass overflowing, especially when it's filled with wine πŸ˜›

    Happy Thanksgiving!

  20. Go Mommy says

    November 24, 2010 at 11:43 am

    It is great that you have such a great relationship with your brothers. My sister and I are like that! Of course we drink a lot when together during the holiday's (it's the only way) and when we are apart for the holiday's, we drink on the phone with each other!

  21. Life Without Pink says

    November 24, 2010 at 11:53 am

    What a beautiful, sweet post!

  22. Jessica says

    November 24, 2010 at 12:30 pm

    I have a headache just trying to think about having a "glass half full" attitude toward some of the people that I have to see tomorrow. (All in-laws thankfully.)

    Positive: at least I don't have to live with them!

  23. Emmy says

    November 24, 2010 at 1:40 pm

    Sounds like you have great brothers. I have three brothers and two sisters, so a crazy big bunch.

    Hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving

  24. Brandi says

    November 24, 2010 at 2:28 pm

    Lovely post. πŸ™‚

    Hope you guys have a nice Thanksgiving!

  25. Andrea (ace1028) says

    November 24, 2010 at 2:42 pm

    You look so pretty! I never saw pics from the wedding. Love it!

    I agree, it is easy to say that we will be thankful for so many things but most important to stop and truly be thankful for those we hold most dear. :>

  26. Hutch says

    November 24, 2010 at 3:00 pm

    My rule for the holidays is to always keep the glass (at least) half-full! Have a great time with your family!

  27. MiMi says

    November 24, 2010 at 3:03 pm

    What a great post!!! I hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving!

  28. Ms Bibi says

    November 24, 2010 at 3:09 pm

    It's important to think about the love we have for all those people who drive us nuts during the holidays.

  29. blueviolet says

    November 24, 2010 at 3:39 pm

    Sometimes I think families are closer when they're further apart! You all are beautiful!

  30. DaisyGal says

    November 24, 2010 at 4:07 pm

    what a gorgeous post Shell, I too miss my siblings a lot too, but when I do see them I love our time together, our shared memories….our connection. πŸ™‚

    Plus you looked SMOKIN …so pretty!!!

    Happy Turkey Day my friend πŸ™‚

  31. MommyLovesStilettos says

    November 24, 2010 at 4:54 pm

    You look gorgeous! Love your dress! πŸ™‚

  32. TheBabyMammaChronicles says

    November 24, 2010 at 5:42 pm

    So great to see such close siblings. Happy Thanksgiving!

  33. Mama Zen says

    November 24, 2010 at 6:58 pm

    That's a glass half full kind of attitude that I can relate to!

  34. Joey @ Big Teeth and Clouds says

    November 24, 2010 at 9:47 pm

    I need to take this sentiment with me tomorrow. Or at the very least have some of what you're drinking!

    Happy Thanksgiving!

  35. Sandra says

    November 24, 2010 at 10:18 pm

    You're beautiful, I love putting a face to the words!
    And yes, this time of year is busy for me too: daughter's birthday, my bday, husband's bday, all within one week of Christmas. I sort of go into this state of complete denial and smile weirdly until it's all over.

  36. Jill says

    November 24, 2010 at 11:16 pm

    Congrats to your bro! Happy Thanksgiving. SOOOO many things to be thankful for!

  37. Heather says

    November 25, 2010 at 12:38 am

    I Have two brothers too and you are right it is important to make an effort to remember their good points. Especially when they are eating the last piece of pie!

    Ya'll are a good looking group. Have a great holiday.

  38. Sara says

    November 25, 2010 at 1:54 am

    Congratulations to your brother!

    You look quite fetching in that photo. And I'm a big fan of the bride's dress.

  39. WhisperingWriter says

    November 25, 2010 at 2:18 am

    Very sweet.

    I wish I had siblings. Being an Only Child sucks sometimes.

  40. bigguysmama says

    November 25, 2010 at 2:27 am

    Hey, it's you, in a full photo! =) LOL I have 2 brothers and 0 sisters. I was the oldest, but missed out on ALL 1st born traits! What the heck?!

    I love both my brothers for different reasons, ones that make them unique.

    I hope you have a wonderful time with your family during the holidays!

    ~Mimi

  41. Goodnight moon says

    November 27, 2010 at 2:01 pm

    Isn't this time of year always so crazy! This is a good "thanksgiving" pour your heart out post!

    You looked awesome in your brothers wedding!!!! Loved your dress!

  42. Babes Mami says

    November 29, 2010 at 3:20 pm

    I try to be half glass full but when I get upset the world better look out!

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