I know I’m supposed to feel the holiday spirit, but I always seem to hit a slump at this time of year.
It’s an ending which always makes me think of the things I haven’t yet done that I want to.
It’s when I feel left out of family holiday happenings, even though I’m the one who chose to live where I do.
It’s when there’s way too much list for the amount of time and money I have before Christmas.
But I don’t want to bah humbug. I do love the Christmas season.
So I’ll focus on those small magical moments that only happen at the holiday season.
Snuggling up by the glow of the Christmas tree.
Little kid voices at the Christmas program, singing about peace, joy, and love.
A visit with Santa.
Cookie decorating and the excuse to try out all sorts of new sweets.
Sending little ones to school in pajamas for Polar Express Day.
Watching the kids mistake a star or a plane for Santa’s sleigh and hearing their excitement.
Knowing that no matter the size of the pile of presents under the tree, my boys will find one thing they love and not care if there’s anything else even there.
A warm mug of hot chocolate or hot apple cider after being out in the cold.
More than two weeks of days where I don’t have to rush the kids out the door in the mornings.
Christmas movie nights were we all pile together on the couch and watch something magical.
Christmas Eve candlelight service. Something about that candlelight glow feels so peaceful.
Staying in our pajamas all day on Christmas.
Slowing down and remembering why we celebrate and spending time with those I love the most.
It is about finding those little moments. I’m having a hard time getting in the spirit this year but for me it’s the traditions that we have started as a family that make me feel the spirit. Our yearly walk around the neighborhood to look at lights, the annual holiday party with our framily and Christmas Eve brunch.
I get humbugish during the holidays. For me its all the pressure to buy, buy, buy! Big families with traditions involving gift giving can be stressful. I try and do my best, but I have my moments where I think Christmas kinda sucks. 🙁 But overall, I do truly love the holiday season.
Staying in pajamas all day makes me happy for sure!
Polar Express day is this Friday. Natalie can’t wait to go to school in her pajamas.
I am pretty stubborn about not letting myself take on too much or expect too much at Christmas.
It’s one of the benefits of being 46 instead of in my twenties or thirties.
I ignore the fact that every year I have more crow’s feet and focus on the fact that I can appreciate the little things more.
Like carols on the radio and a fire in the fireplace. My dogs got me up at 3:30 this morning to go out (ugh!) and I couldn’t get back to sleep. Instead of worrying about it, I poured myself a cup of coffee, turned the lights on the tree and sat in silence trying to be grateful.
It’s an effort sometimes, isn’t it?
But it sounds like you’ve found ways to stay in the holiday spirit.
Wishing you and your beautiful family a warm, lovely season.
No Scrooges allowed 🙂
I love plugging in the Christmas tree, lighting the Yankee candle, and turning out the lights. That little bit of visual quiet helps to soothe and calm me after a busy day.
I could go for some cookies and book right now! 🙂 Merry early Christmas friend!
I’ve been trying to enjoy the little moments despite all the hustle and bustle too, it’s hard at times! I hope you are able to enjoy time with your cuties! Happy Holidays, my friend!