Every Friday, instead of the things *I* can’t say, it’s the things *you* can’t say. While this usually features one blogger in a guest post, occasionally I ask for you to share your opinion about a given topic and share all of your opinions here. Since my 9th wedding anniversary is rapidly approaching, I asked for your thoughts on marriage. Here’s what you had to say:
Marriage is like a see-saw. You’ll go up and down frequently. But more often then not, you’ll find that perfect balance. -Lisa, Autism Wonderland
For us, marriage before kids was simple, easy, and fun. After kids, marriage has been hard work to make sure we stay connected and full of negotiation to make sure we both get time to have a chance to do the things we love (me- blogging, him running). -Nancyjo, A Pocketful of Dinosaurs
Marriage is hard, but incredibly worthwhile. It takes maintenance, repair and intention, but gives foundation, future and joy. Marriage is my chance to show my boys every day what I hope they will find – two partners who love, support and bring happiness to each other. -Deborah, Ask Dr. G
Marriage is a partnership and both people have to share the work to keep it a safe and happy place. The rewards are so worth the effort! -Denise, According to Denise
Marriage is a life-long learning experience. Some of the lessons are wonderful, some totally suck. When you take those vows you better mean them because every one of those things WILL happen at some point! -Jennifer, Just Jennifer
Marriage is reminding yourself every day why you fell in love with this person in the first place. Especially when they’re snoring so loudly you can’t sleep. -Jennifer, The Misadventures of Mrs. B
Marriage IS hard work. it’s not always sunshine and rainbows, but when it’s good, it’s great 
-Rebecca, Just Cherish Today
Marriage is recognizing that even though men turn into the biggest wimps when they get sick, they will fight hell and high water to take care of their families. As soon as they can get back up off the couch. And I guess it’s pretty great that you get to spend every day with your best friend, too. 
-Jocelyn, ScooterMarie
Marriage is like having a job. You have to work at it everyday, and its hard work, but when you get that “paycheck” you realize just how very worth it, it is. Im lucky to be in love with my best friend, and I couldn’t imagine this crazy ride through life and parenting with any other man! -Jessica, Spit Up Chronicles
Marriage is the celebration and commitment as a couple. There are ups and downs, but giving up is not an option unless not cut out for marriage. -Mama and the City
Marriage is hard. We find that picking your battles and keeping the laughter keeps us connected. -Tayarra, Five Sharp Lives
Marriage is having your best friend, your love and your worst enemy all rolled into one. It is an adventure where each day is another page your book of love and knowing that there is someone with you through good times and bad. -Debra, The Harried Mom
Marriage is riding out every storm even if the boat capsizes. You have to climb back in and start bailing water and get that boat floating again. You patch it and care for it and keep it sailing because when it’s smooth sailing it’s best time of your life! -Day In and Day Out
Marriage is a reminder that with the right partner you can get through anything. It’s the foundation of our little family, and when we consciously work to keep our marriage interesting and fun our whole family dynamic runs more smoothly. -Angela, Angela Amman
Marriage is about love, support, and mutual respect. You hold each other up when times are hard and celebrate together during the good times. You can’t expect it to always be sunshine and lollipops, but if you weather the storms together, you come out stronger. -Teresa, Embracing the Spectrum
Marriage is not 50/50 – not to get the “better”. The better is both people giving 100%. I think then your odds are better at surviving the worst. -Leslie, Time Out for Mom
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